I work very well with couples who are curious about what a loving relationship could look like for them, rather than what it should look like, accepting roles and patterns. We pay particular attention to what supports and enhances each of you within the relationship. I strive to support and advocate for love in all its forms. I welcome couples of all genders and sexual expressions.
As we work together, I step in to help slow down the fighting or distancing, soften the hardened edges, and help bring couples back into mutuality, partnership, and intimacy. Most couples struggle around spending more time together, agreeing to a deeper level of commitment, or any number of decisions or tensions around sex, money, kids, gender roles, emotional intimacy and safety- even issues as mundane as chores or meals. Dynamics you’ve learned from your parents or other important couples in your life may further separate you from the person you love. It may be scary or hard to talk through these things, but as we sit together, you can feel close again.